Life seemed to have it in for me. So many times I have wanted things, only to be disappointed. Why can’t I get what I want? Or even better yet, why do others have what I want? I have often wondered why some people have so much and seem not to give anything back. Why can’t they help me out?
I could not understand why some people have so much without doing anything for it. They come from rich families, had all the best opportunities, and had everything given on a silver platter. Most of them are not smarter than I am and I certainly thought they were not as deserving.
What was I thinking? “I must be out of my mind!” I realized one day.
That’s when I started changing the way I see myself. I started to focus on me. What can I do differently, rather than focus on what others have that I want. Life for me got better. I had an easier time coping. I still thought that life was unfair, but I was better at ignoring what others had or were able to do that seemed out of my reach.
The greatest realization that totally changed my entire being was that I was not out of my mind by having such thoughts and beliefs. I was quite the contrary. I was totally in my mind, not out of it. I lived in the land of what ifs, and why them and not me.
I totally had forgotten who I was and the riches I had within myself. At that moment I realized that everything I’ve ever wanted I already have inside of me. I hold the key to my life. It’s not opening my mind that I need to do – it opening up my heart. I realize now that my heart commands my mind. It leads my thoughts to take inspired actions. Inspired actions lead me to share myself; and sharing leads to attracting what I need.
What I need changed everything. It’s not the need that is related to one thing. It’s the need offered by life by providing me with the best tools for me to be who I was born to be. Sharing who I am has been the most fulfilling part of my life.
By sharing, I am in the state of abundance. By being in abundance, I open up and vibrate at the proper level to receive.
When I share something with someone, this means I already own it. If I want love in my life, I must love. If I want to help or collaboration, I must be helpful and collaborate.
When I’m in a state of giving, life makes sure that I’m at the right place to start receiving. I don’t even have to ask. And I know that what I receive is always for my greater good.
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