Three Steps To A Good Life And Good Business

By Julie-Ann Blackmore

There are only three steps to a good life and a good business and they are the following:

One: Know Who You Are.
Two: Know Why You Are Here
Three: Know What You Are Supposed To Do Now You Know Who You Are and Why You Are Here

That’s it, do all of those and you are guaranteed an amazing abundant happy life and business if that’s how you’ve decided to apply them. To some these steps may seem the simplest in the world. And some of you may be half way or all the way there. Well congratulations because even though simple as they are, they are no mean feat. In fact they are not mean at all, rather being very kind and easy to follow.

Others of you may be thinking, that there is no way you could ever do them and I may as well be telling you to climb Mount Everest on one foot and your hands tied behind your back. Believe me they are extremely simple. You don’t just have to believe me why not live them and find out for yourself how rich your life and business is?

Let’s get some clarity on each step by breaking them down one by one and taking a more in-depth view of what I mean.

Step One
Know Who you Are

In other words know yourself. Not until you really know who you are can you start to live the life that you think you want to and know you deserve to. Only when you have the clear picture of yourself can you then be yourself.

So how do you do this? Do you spend lots of money delving into each crevice of your mind, and believe me that could go on forever as for every time you look, your mind can find a new crevice to explore? Or do you believe what someone else has written? Or do you listen to yourself and know your own truth about who you are?

Well, you can do all of these. You can spend years in therapy and counselling trying to work out who you are. Or I can tell you now, although you might not believe it yet or ever and that is your choice today. It may not be your choice tomorrow. If it’s your choice today then that’s good enough. Not good enough for a complete life of joy and abundance. Still not good enough for you? Or you can go away on a retreat, learn to meditate or take up any wonderful and eye-opening practice that will help you uncover whom you are.

Here’s my short cut.

I spent months writing and living every word in seven books to find out exactly who I am, where I have come from as a human being and what I am supposed to do now I’m here. The one reason I did this was the reason why I am here. To share what I know with other people just like you so that you don’t have to go through the pains and fears that my journey uncovered and created for me. So that you can take this article as a short cut straight to a life and business or job or whatever you want without the unnecessary fear and pain we as humans seem to like to put ourselves under.

Interested? Then read on.

Bear in mind that anything I have written will only be understood by you at the level that your mind is ready to accept today, and that is fine today. You always have a choice and you always will. You can choose to continue to read this article and find out about life and how you live it. Or you can choose not to. If you think that your way of living or doing business is great and working for you then that’s fine by me. I really have no other interest than sharing what I know to be true to help people to live and work better. This way slowly the country, the nation and the world will change and become a lot more productive, affluent and happy.

Now money alone doesn’t bring happiness, but the thought of having it does. But what if you take that thought away. What then? What are you left with?

Actually, you are left with you pure and simple you, with no thinking. And that’s who you really are. You are, as we all are, simply a channel for light, love, healing, and abundance whatever you want to call it. That’s what you are. Get your head, your mind and your thoughts out of the way then you as a person will not exist. You are merely a physical body filled with energy that is connected by a channel or tunnel to all the rest of the energy.

Now, if this seems a little too heavy going and spiritual then that’s fine. I did tell you it was a short cut to the truth. You will only believe what you want. If you still need to think things over and cause yourself more pain and chaos then you will. That’s your choice and not mine. My choice is merely to offer you a different way of thinking until you realise that when you stop thinking then you become who you are. And when that happens then life is sheer bliss. It is easy, fun and full of gifts of love.

And love comes in many forms, depending on how you want it. It can come by gifts of money, or clients, or a partner or a new house. Whatever you want, when you recognise that you are actually connected to it energetically anyway, you can and will have it. There’s no great debate. That is it. You are connected to all by this tunnel that goes up from your physical body and is always clear for you to channel light, love, wisdom, music, advice. Whatever your particular gift is, it will be flowing.

The only problem, and it’s only slight, and it’s you. Or rather not you, more your mind and the way you think. Because you insist on thinking and thinking and thinking and creating what you want with pain or pressure, stress, resistance or hardship. That is what you get. You end up blocking the channel to the true meaning of you and why you are here and how you can have all that you want by wanting it too much.

Imagine you are out for a walk. You notice an animal and want to take a closer look. You start to approach the animal but as soon as it sees you it starts to move away. You become more curious and more in need of seeing the animal so you start to move in closer and closer. Meanwhile the animal isn’t ready to have anyone close to it and moves further and further away. A chase eventually ensues. Now two things could happen. You may never catch the animal and give up, tail between your legs and really fed up and tired. Or you catch the animal at what price? How is your health? Were you fit enough to run and chase it? Did you encounter unnecessary stress and pain on your chase or was it plain sailing? Did the animal bite you when you caught it because it wasn’t ready to be caught or did you mismanage it and dropped it by mistake?

Now think of the same scenario, you are out walking and you spot an animal you want to look at. This time you notice the animal and it notices you. You wait for it to approach you. And sure enough when it is ready it will come over and greet you. If you are kind and even more patient it may let you pet it and even pick it up. You may even be able to take it home and have it as your pet if you want to.

Now the end result was very different to the last. You didn’t persist in wanting, you just waited patiently. The animal didn’t resist in coming near you it came over when the time was right. No broken or chewed fingers, no unhappy you or animal, no feelings of failure or stress, or pressure to succeed. Just an end result with no real effort on your part, and you still got what you wanted.

Now apply this to your life your home life, personal life, business life or career or even the actual business corporation you work in. How much easier would life be all around not only for you, for your friends and families and clients and colleagues if you adopted this new way of thinking?

There would be no comparison to how it is now. Would there? So if you can get the end result with little or no effort then why do you still need to try over and over again, chasing your goal further and further away from you?

Why?

Because you don’t know who you are.

Go back to work or to your partner or your family and friends and just for a small amount of time imagine that what I have said is true. How would this fact really alter the way you live your life, communicate with yourself and others and conduct business? How would what I have said open up your doors of possibilities and opportunities not for growth and change but for complete abundance?

When you fully accept that you are what I have said you are, merely a channel that is clear and able to pass free-flowing energy of whatever you want it be through you to others, then you get the life you want. I have accepted that I am a physical body attached to the whole of everything, a great pool of light and because my purpose is to bring light to others by words, I do. I am able to write this article and many others like it in less than two hours. I am able to write whole books in less than two weeks. My gift to others and to myself is the gift of wisdom and love in the form of words either spoken or written. Your gift to others may be something completely different. Love and light comes in many guises. It can be in a beautiful piece of music or a wonderful poem. Or even in a passing smile. Love can be all around you and in you, if you want it to be.

If this is now getting too airy fairy and elusive then don’t worry. Again the idea is to open you up to new possibilities and ways of being, not to get you to join a cult or a convent. I am not a preacher of madness or religion. I only preach what I practice. If you really do want a life and business of abundance then take the first step and start to tell your mind that you are capable of anything and everything without effort. Of course your mind will wholeheartedly disagree and tell you a number of reasons why this isn’t true. And that’s fine for you today, and tomorrow is another day.

But tomorrow also never comes. Does that mean the choice does need to be made today? Do you choose to be you and have a peaceful, easy, fun and extremely productive and wealthy life? Or do you choose to end up in more pain, stress, illness and confusion?

The short cut to alleviate all of that is here waiting for you. All you have to do is take it. Take it and learn from it what you will. Uncover one more layer of truth for you, about you and let go of one more bunch of lies that your mind has been clouding your channel of light with. For that is what happens. Every time you think a bad thought, or a doubt, or say something negative then you automatically move further away from what you want to know who you are and how you can have an amazing life, or business, or even be an amazing business as a collective. For these steps will work in whatever way you apply them to whatever thing or person you decide to apply them to as long as you have their permission. If you try to force your views, your business your needs and wants onto another they will run just like the animal did. If you let them be and come to you then they will come bearing gifts of love and abundance.

For like attracts like and once you clear out your tunnel and recognise who you are then you are able to truly receive the great gifts the world has to offer. Hence you become affluent, happy, peaceful, loved and loving. Whatever you want you get and with no real effort. Still sound too good to be true then that’s just muddied your tunnel a little bit more.

What has?

That thought. Why? Because every thought that doesn’t empower you as you, dis-empowers you and blocks your connection to all that you are and all that you can have.

So that’s enough on step one, onto step two.

Step Two
Know Why You Are Here

This one’s so easy it’s almost laughable. When you’ve accepted and lived step one then step two is just a natural progression on from that. When you have attracted the animal through kindness then it’s time to accept why you have attracted it. May be it needed to come over because it needed a new home, or maybe it needed some love, or maybe it just likes being petted. Whatever the reason the animal approached you. So now you know why you are here. Don’t you?

No. Oh, why not?

I thought that because you are reading this you must be doing what you want to be doing otherwise why would you be reading an article entitled ‘Three steps to a good life and a good business?’ Well maybe the fact that you are reading this tells you already that it’s time for a change in the way you are living or running your business whatever that may happen to be. Or you could do the first step and come back to this one later if you need to? But as I have already said when you really do accept and connect with your higher power, whatever name you wish to call it then you know step two inside out.

I only call your higher power a pool of light and love because my mind likes those terms. Other minds like God, or Higher Self or Soul or The One, The Source, whatever your mind will tell you what it wants you to be known as. All you really need to know is that if you are a free channel connected to this pool of whatever you call it, and we all are connected then that means we all are connected. And that means we are all one. In turn then means we are all able to have the same gifts if we want. We can have infinite wisdom and knowledge. We can paint like the great artist Picasso if that is how we choose to live our life. We can write music like the astounding composer Bach and you can write books like me.

It is no secret how I do this. I merely know who I am and that because of this, I let my energy flow freely from the light pit to me and out of me in the form of words, either written or spoken. That’s it. No mystery and definitely no effort. I wrote a business development book between things to do on a Saturday afternoon with no need to do anything other than write. I didn’t spend hours slaving away before or after I wrote it trying to change it or edit it or telling myself it wasn’t good enough. I merely let the energy in me bring the words and my mind read them as they appeared on the screen of my laptop. So not only am I the writer, I am also the reader. There’s a thought for you to mull over. How can I be the reader and the writer at the same time?

Simple, I do what I know I am here to do and this is my gift for completing and living step one. What’s yours? Have you found it yet or are you still searching? Well maybe this article will bring you a little closer to your truth and if not then hey, at least I’ve done my job for the day and it only took me a couple of hours of pure bliss.

And so to step number three, I’m sure you’ve had enough of step two. And if you haven’t then just remember one thing:

Any amount of searching will always bring you any amounts of different answers. There will come a time when you just have to choose one and let it be.

Step Three
Know What You Are Supposed To Do Now You Know Who You Are And Why You Are Here

Nothing

Absolutely nothing. And you can’t get simpler than that.

What did you do to make the animal come to you? Nothing. What happened when you did do something? It ran away. And so it is with life and business. The more you do the worse it becomes. Give up. Give in gracefully and be yourself. There really is nothing else for it. Once you have completed and lived step one and two then not only do you know who you are and why you are here, you also get what you are meant to get. Complete and utter abundance in every way you can imagine and more than a few that you can’t even begin to think of.

Once you give up the ghost and clear your mind of past traits, problems, words, thoughts, issues, business deals gone wrong and mistakes whatever then you become clear and pure to be able to just live the life you choose. You live life for you with love, happiness and fun. You live in the way that you are here to live and you become showered with gifts. People want to give you things. Opportunities that you could never imagine just drop straight into your lap. Clients phone you from out of the blue offering you major deals with no catch. Life does a 90 degree turn and so do you and your business, whatever that happens to be at the moment. Everything starts to change and get better. You ride on the wave of opportunity until you are ready to become that wave and bring opportunities to others.

For when you have completed and lived all three of the steps previously mentioned then you really do know how to be you and not only know it you are living, breathing and enjoying it. I would even go as far to say that you are relishing in it and every moment becomes a moment of pure bliss. Happy to be alive, fulfilled and at peace with all that you know and all that you do and able to teach and help others to have a better life too.

So please accept this gift of knowledge, wisdom and love whatever you want to call it. Remember it came from me to you, and only remember this because you know that if I can do it then you can too.

Julie-Ann Blackmore specializes in health, wealth and happiness. Her own business How To Be You concentrates on offering products and services that guide the consumers and clients to improve their own personal and professional lives. Currently on offer self-help e books ranging in topics of Life, Death And The Universe, to a Book Of Meditations, real life experiences in How To Be You One and Stories For The Business Mind. Also on offer is abstract art, inspirational cards, psychic readings, intuitive guidance on all matters personal and professional and inspirational and fun loving talks. Using her innate psychic abilities affords Julie-Ann the ability to tailor make her work to suit your needs perfectly. For purchases or information please visit her temporary website http://www.howtobeyou.wordpress.com or contact Julie-Ann via email  [mailto:howtobeyou@hotmail.com]howtobeyou@hotmail.com

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