by Lisa Hayes…

ezine200910104_smileOne of the most common questions people ask about law of attraction and relationships is, “Can I use Law of Attraction on other people?” . In other words, “Can I get other people to do, feel, or think the way I want them to?”

Uh… Let me answer that one for you. No.

The foundation of law of attraction says you can have any thing you want. That said, you cannot have anyone you want. Very simply put, this means you cannot use your mojo to make someone fall in love with you or stay in love with you against their will. However, you absolutely can have the relationship of your dreams - just not necessarily with the one you think you want.

But, and this is a bit BUT, you can influence anyone with your vibration. I call this bringing your A game. Anytime you interact with anyone, ranging from the auto mechanic to your lover, you are responsible for what kind of energy you are bringing to the interaction. If you are dreary, negative, and agitated, you can bet people will respond to that. If you are upbeat, confident, playful, and exciting, the odds are the same – people will respond to that to. If you want the best, most energetically alive, and uplifting experience with people you have to make sure you’re bringing your A game to the field.

What much influence can you bring with your A game? It can vary, however, in my experience the answer is a lot. You have a lot more control over how things go with others then you think. How do you play the A game? Make sure you have your best vibe on whenever you come in contact with others . Don’t bring your vibrational junk into your interactions. Find as many things as possible to appreciate about the other players and really dig on those things. Take a good deep breath and think about how things always go your way.

But here’s the big one. Get really good and practicing and executing the “I really, really love you” vibe and start sending it out before you’re actually face to face with another. Imagine a laser beam of love from your heart right to theirs. The “I really, really, love you” vibe doesn’t have to be exclusively for lovers, friends, and family. It can be just as wonderful for the auto mechanic, postman, and yes, my favorite, the bank teller. The more you practice it, the more effective it becomes. Seriously – you can be a love laser… How cool is that? More importantly, how much influence will that get you? A whole bunch. Now – I know what some might be thinking, sounds like some sort of manipulation.

I don’t think so. I think everyone wants to be influenced by positive, upbeat, people. Even more so, I think everyone wants to be loved on, especially vibrationally. It’s like magic fairy dust that makes everything go more smoothly every single time.

So – Can you turn the people around you into mindless zombies doing your bidding. Absolutely not.

Can you make all of your interactions with anyone you come in contact with a lot more magical and things go your way, way more often? You betcha!!!

About the Author:
Lisa Hayes is the author of HOW TO ESCAPE FROM RELATIONSHIP HELL. She is a mother of two, yoga instructor, hypnotherapist, and internet project manager. Lisa likes long walks on the beach and naps. You can contact her at http://www.escapefromrelationshiphell.com.

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