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		<title>Pleasers Are Really Naive And Unaware</title>
		<link>http://wisdomalacarte.net/blog/pleasers-are-really-naive-and-unaware/2012/01/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Jan 2012 19:36:05 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Arlene</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Personal Growth]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[By Joan Chamberlain
A Deeper Look at the Pleasing Personality.
I was talking with Ryan yesterday. He&#8217;s about seven months into a divorce proceeding and pretty bitter about it. We&#8217;ve talked about his 13-year marriage many times, exploring it from different angles to learn more about Ryan. This marriage is his third; this divorce is his third. [...]
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		<title>How to Deal With Critic, Slights, and Humiliation</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Dec 2011 17:10:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Arlene</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[By Olaf Schwennesen
The disrespectful remarks of other people &#8211; slights, critics, or humiliations &#8211; can hurt us very much. Sometimes it hurts so much that we want to take revenge to restore our wounded self-esteem. Why is it possible that critic and humiliation are able to harm us? The answer can be found in our [...]
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		<title>The Real Root of All Evil Is Not Money</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 24 Dec 2011 14:43:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Arlene</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[By Valencia Ray MD 
The real root of all evil is not money; it&#8217;s lack of self-acceptance. By the way, even the Bible doesn&#8217;t say it&#8217;s money. There it says the &#8220;love of money&#8221; and love as used in the proper translation would be &#8220;lust&#8221; or attachment &#8211; in other words, greed. This is where [...]
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		<title>Feeling Worthy After Divorce</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Sep 2011 19:23:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Arlene</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[By Frances Copping
So many people go through life with an underlying feeling of unworthiness which not only chronically lowers their mood, but also stunts their success in life. This is especially true for people who have gone through divorce and separation:
&#8220;He was unfaithful, I must be ugly!&#8221;
&#8220;If she doesn&#8217;t want me any more I must [...]
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		<title>Boosting Your Self-Esteem During Hard Times</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 03 Sep 2011 15:20:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Arlene</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[By Kevin Sinclair 
It&#8217;s already extremely trying to get your self-esteem boosted during the normal times, but what do you do when you are going through the hard times? How can you make yourself feel better in your self-esteem?
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		<title>Is Your Self Esteem Bucket Filled With Holes?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 31 Jul 2011 17:36:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Arlene</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[By Bridgette Oberski
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		<title>Helpful Advice That Isn&#8217;t &#8211; AKA Unsolicited Advice</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Jun 2011 23:00:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>5 Questions to Help You Become Your Authentic Self</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Jun 2011 17:24:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Arlene</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[By Joyce Shafer 
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		<title>Woman to Woman: Independence From Codependence</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 05 Apr 2011 20:03:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Arlene</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[By Alison Rodgers
  Can you be filled with love and light when you feel as though there is a past memory standing between you and &#8220;moving forward?&#8221;  Are you struggling with inner peace over a breakup or change in relationship status?  It&#8217;s tough when your world is changed by the departure of a friend [...]
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		<title>How to Repair the Negative Thoughts That Contribute to Your Low Self Esteem</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Mar 2011 20:30:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Arlene</dc:creator>
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