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		<title>Pleasers Are Really Naive And Unaware</title>
		<link>http://wisdomalacarte.net/blog/pleasers-are-really-naive-and-unaware/2012/01/</link>
		<comments>http://wisdomalacarte.net/blog/pleasers-are-really-naive-and-unaware/2012/01/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Jan 2012 19:36:05 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Arlene</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Personal Growth]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[assertiveness]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[pleasers]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[relationship]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[self esteem]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[By Joan Chamberlain
A Deeper Look at the Pleasing Personality.
I was talking with Ryan yesterday. He&#8217;s about seven months into a divorce proceeding and pretty bitter about it. We&#8217;ve talked about his 13-year marriage many times, exploring it from different angles to learn more about Ryan. This marriage is his third; this divorce is his third. [...]


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<li><a href='http://wisdomalacarte.net/blog/its-not-fair/2010/12/' rel='bookmark' title='Permanent Link: It&#8217;s Not Fair!'>It&#8217;s Not Fair!</a></li>
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		<title>How to Deal With Critic, Slights, and Humiliation</title>
		<link>http://wisdomalacarte.net/blog/how-to-deal-with-critic-slights-and-humiliation/2011/12/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Dec 2011 17:10:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Arlene</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Personal Growth]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[confidence]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[critic]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[humilation]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[self esteem]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[slights]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[wounded self-esteem]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[By Olaf Schwennesen
The disrespectful remarks of other people &#8211; slights, critics, or humiliations &#8211; can hurt us very much. Sometimes it hurts so much that we want to take revenge to restore our wounded self-esteem. Why is it possible that critic and humiliation are able to harm us? The answer can be found in our [...]


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<li><a href='http://wisdomalacarte.net/blog/how-to-deal-with-someone-who-is-not-happy-for-you/2011/09/' rel='bookmark' title='Permanent Link: How to Deal With Someone Who Is Not Happy For You'>How to Deal With Someone Who Is Not Happy For You</a></li>
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		<title>The Real Root of All Evil Is Not Money</title>
		<link>http://wisdomalacarte.net/blog/the-real-root-of-all-evil-is-not-money/2011/12/</link>
		<comments>http://wisdomalacarte.net/blog/the-real-root-of-all-evil-is-not-money/2011/12/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 24 Dec 2011 14:43:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Arlene</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Personal Growth]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Spirituality]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Collaborative Leadership]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[happiness]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[overwhelm]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[personal power]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[self esteem]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Self-Acceptance]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[stress]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[By Valencia Ray MD 
The real root of all evil is not money; it&#8217;s lack of self-acceptance. By the way, even the Bible doesn&#8217;t say it&#8217;s money. There it says the &#8220;love of money&#8221; and love as used in the proper translation would be &#8220;lust&#8221; or attachment &#8211; in other words, greed. This is where [...]


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<li><a href='http://wisdomalacarte.net/blog/dont-let-money-rule-your-choices/2010/08/' rel='bookmark' title='Permanent Link: Don&#8217;t Let Money Rule Your Choices'>Don&#8217;t Let Money Rule Your Choices</a></li>
<li><a href='http://wisdomalacarte.net/blog/three-points-to-remember-about-money/2011/10/' rel='bookmark' title='Permanent Link: Three Points to Remember About Money'>Three Points to Remember About Money</a></li>
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		<title>Feeling Worthy After Divorce</title>
		<link>http://wisdomalacarte.net/blog/feeling-worthy-after-divorce/2011/09/</link>
		<comments>http://wisdomalacarte.net/blog/feeling-worthy-after-divorce/2011/09/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Sep 2011 19:23:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Arlene</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[divorce]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[feelings after divorce]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[self esteem]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[separation]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[worthiness]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[By Frances Copping
So many people go through life with an underlying feeling of unworthiness which not only chronically lowers their mood, but also stunts their success in life. This is especially true for people who have gone through divorce and separation:
&#8220;He was unfaithful, I must be ugly!&#8221;
&#8220;If she doesn&#8217;t want me any more I must [...]


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		<title>Boosting Your Self-Esteem During Hard Times</title>
		<link>http://wisdomalacarte.net/blog/boosting-your-self-esteem-during-hard-times/2011/09/</link>
		<comments>http://wisdomalacarte.net/blog/boosting-your-self-esteem-during-hard-times/2011/09/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 03 Sep 2011 15:20:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Arlene</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Personal Growth]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[feel nurtured]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[feel stronger]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[how to handle bad times]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[self esteem]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[By Kevin Sinclair 
It&#8217;s already extremely trying to get your self-esteem boosted during the normal times, but what do you do when you are going through the hard times? How can you make yourself feel better in your self-esteem?
When life happens, such as the loss of jobs, loss of relationships, or illness, you can experience [...]


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		<title>Is Your Self Esteem Bucket Filled With Holes?</title>
		<link>http://wisdomalacarte.net/blog/is-your-self-esteem-bucket-filled-with-holes/2011/07/</link>
		<comments>http://wisdomalacarte.net/blog/is-your-self-esteem-bucket-filled-with-holes/2011/07/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 31 Jul 2011 17:36:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Arlene</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Personal Growth]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[self esteem]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[self esteem bucket]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[By Bridgette Oberski
One of the most amazing interviews I have ever seen was with Mike Tyson. Now here&#8217;s a guy who obviously was blessed with talent. He was strong and powerful. Some people described him as &#8220;ferocious&#8221;.
Mike grew up in high crime neighborhoods. His father left when he was 2. By the age of 13 [...]


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		<title>Helpful Advice That Isn&#8217;t &#8211; AKA Unsolicited Advice</title>
		<link>http://wisdomalacarte.net/blog/helpful-advice-that-isnt-aka-unsolicited-advice/2011/06/</link>
		<comments>http://wisdomalacarte.net/blog/helpful-advice-that-isnt-aka-unsolicited-advice/2011/06/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Jun 2011 23:00:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Arlene</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Personal Growth]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[helpful advice]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[positive attitude]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[self esteem]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[self help]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[unsolicited advice]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[By Kara Lane 
 At some point in our lives, we&#8217;ve all been in the position of either giving or receiving unsolicited advice. Interestingly enough, when we&#8217;re on the giving end, we generally don&#8217;t see it as a problem. For one thing, we&#8217;re often not even aware of what we&#8217;re doing. In our mind, we&#8217;re [...]


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		<title>5 Questions to Help You Become Your Authentic Self</title>
		<link>http://wisdomalacarte.net/blog/5-questions-to-help-you-become-your-authentic-self/2011/06/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Jun 2011 17:24:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Arlene</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Personal Growth]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[By Joyce Shafer 
  If you feel inauthentic, you already know how painful that can be. If you&#8217;re a people-pleaser, you know how painful that can be, too. If you feel the real you lives behind a façade, or worse, you aren&#8217;t even sure who the real you is any more, use these five [...]


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		<title>Woman to Woman: Independence From Codependence</title>
		<link>http://wisdomalacarte.net/blog/woman-to-woman-independence-from-codependence/2011/04/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 05 Apr 2011 20:03:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Arlene</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Relationships]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[By Alison Rodgers
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		<title>How to Repair the Negative Thoughts That Contribute to Your Low Self Esteem</title>
		<link>http://wisdomalacarte.net/blog/how-to-repair-the-negative-thoughts-that-contribute-to-your-low-self-esteem/2011/03/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Mar 2011 20:30:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Arlene</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Personal Growth]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[how to feel joy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[low self]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[low self esteem]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[negative thoughts]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[negative thoughts perpetuate]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[self esteem]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[By Anne Dessens 
  There is nothing like negative thoughts to really bring down your self-esteem. If you are suffering from low self-esteem, then it&#8217;s time to look at how you talk to yourself and how you can repair the negative thoughts that contribute to this low feeling of self.
It&#8217;s true that it is [...]


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