I’m going to assume you are thinking “Elizabeth, I know this!” But there I go – thinking that I know what you are thinking.
Seriously, if you stop and think about it – how many times a day do you assume you know what someone else is thinking and then make a decision based on what you think they are thinking!
Kind of silly, isn’t it? Read More→
Physical need includes; security, safety, warmth, future happiness, financial, career, and even a spiritual sense of place in the world. You can see that physical attachment to someone is very complex because it captures so much of our unconscious communication with ourselves and with others.
Our Physical attractions encapsulate our need for mothering, fathering, care, kindness, acceptance, and feeling wanted in the world. So, we tie many subconscious agendas to the people we are attracted to. Now the fact that these ties are subconscious is the real trauma because it means we don’t know they exist. We can only presume they exist. For example: a child who is “diminished and put down” might grow into an adult who seeks sexual activity with many partners. They transfer their inbuilt and well hidden need for love (from their childhood journey) into the acceptance they get from an intimate engagement with a lover. Read More→
By Blair Souder
“Look around you. Look into the faces of everyone around you. They are all reflections of you.”
This beautiful statement was made as a woman stood and looked into the faces of 200 souls- who looked back at her and reflected the love and compassion she was feeling in that moment, amplified back to her 200 times. There was a palpable, unmistakable aura of unity and connection- an energy of which flowed through us all.
This statement is universally true for anyone, at any time. Look around you. What do you see? What you see is a reflection of you.
Outer experience is a reflection of inner reality. Read More→
“Intimacy- closeness to yourself in times of solitude or closeness to others in moments of sharing and connecting- reflects your inner world as almost nothing else does. And this intimacy begins from the inside; it begins with your own self.”~ Intimacy and Solitude by S. Dowrick
Are you comfortable with yourself? Do you know yourself well? Or, do you rely on others to shape who you are? As I read the book Intimacy and Solitude, the constant message is ‘know thyself, know thyself, know thyself’. How can you give to others what you yourself don’t have? How can you truly love another when you don’t love yourself?
NOW IS THE TIME. Seek out solitude. Spend time dreaming, setting goals and getting to know yourself. Read More→
By John P Brink
Axioms:
• The “impossible” MAY not be accomplished regardless of your skill, effort or ingenuity.
• Howver, the “impossible” will NEVER be accomplished if you possess no belief it can be accomplished.
• The “impossible” can ONLY be accomplished if you possess the belief it can be accomplished.
• The “impossible” now BECOMES the possible, only because you possessed the belief it could be accomplished. Read More→
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