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Let Go of the Rope

Saturday, July 17th, 2010

By Dana Houser

I was standing at the magazine rack of my local B&N bookstore the other day when I came across the best magazine on the “Life of Luxury” there is, the Robb Report. As I thumbed through the pages looking at million dollar homes, fancy sports cars, incredible jewelry, private jets and mind-boggling boats, I had to ask myself, “what do these people do?”

As you get up each morning, get dressed and head out the door to your ‘dream job’ I’m sure you believe everyone is just like you. That ‘dream job’ remark was extremely sarcastic by the way, because most people hate what they ‘have to do’ everyday. Then why do they do it?

When I asked myself that question, I was reminded of a boating story that happened years ago. It was Wally’s first time on water skis. He jumped in the water, slipped the skis on his feet, and was briefed on how to get up on top of the water. Everyone thought everything was covered, and it was, we thought. That is until Wally crashed, and didn’t let go of the rope. Never assume anything, maybe he thought we’d pull him back around to his skis and he would start on the go. But as we started to slow down, we kept yelling at him to “let go of the rope”. I mean he was getting drug on the water, bouncing off the wake and taking in more than Moby Dick. Wally couldn’t hear us and unfortunately nearly every time we yelled to “let go of the rope,” he got another mouthful or bounced off another wave.

That’s a pretty funny story and thankfully no one was hurt, at least nothing serious. But how many of us go through life ‘hanging onto the rope?’ Read More→

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By John W Robertson

Why has it taken a year before I finished my plan: A Lesson in Prioritization.

About 18 months ago I designed a computer desk and shelving surround for my home office. About a year ago I built the basic desk, and yesterday I finally built the shelving to go around the desk. It’s nothing fancy, but it is solid, and most importantly it is practical.

When I designed my desk It met all of the basic needs a computer desk and shelves are intended for, a place to put my computer and some shelves to store my stuff on in a reasonably organized fashion, more organized than stacks of books and papers at least.

Since the shelves sit directly on the desk, there was little point building them first, so naturally I chose to build the basic desk first, since this would be the foundation. That was about a year ago. Read More→

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By Helena Pretorius

All successful people have self-discipline as it is this quality that aids you to reach your goals. Developing self-discipline for success means you are giving yourself and your goals true and proper respect. It affects your ability to see a project through. It allows you to stay focused on your goal.

 We are given magnificent ‘birth gifts” – talents, capacities, privileges, intelligences, opportunities – that would remain largely unopened except through our own decision and effort. Read More→

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By Joshua Nyamache

Everyone sets financial goals differently. It depends on their resources, physical abilities and other factors regarding their current situation. There are, however, some guidelines you can follow to ensure that your aims are realistic. Many people unknowingly set their aims too high that eventually leads to failure and disappointments in their lives.

The Following are some tips you can use: Read More→

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By Deborah Hayes

We all come to a point in our life when we sense that things haven’t turned out quite like we expected. That moment in time when we look up and realize that many of the things we thought we would do or have or try or be “when the time was right” have not occurred and don’t seem to be anywhere on the horizon. For many of us when these thoughts occur we choose to either ignore it or we may think it’s too late and we should be happy for the good in our life and put those thoughts back in the junk drawer where we found them.

A woman’s midlife journey today is very different from the path our mothers and grandmothers walked. We have had educational and lifestyle advantages that simply were not an option in their day. Read More→

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