th_road1by Trevor Hill… 
It is tempting to make the case that the problem is ‘other people’. If it wasn’t for them we would be more organized, more productive and more satisfied. We would get all the important things done and avoid all the silly distractions that surround us.

It is certainly true that we need to be flexible to a degree and accommodate other working styles and communicate with people very different to us. Yet we do have a responsibility to ourselves to honour what we believe is really important, our true agenda. Blaming other people is a way of ignoring this responsibility.

If this true agenda gets hidden away, we can be very busy without being consciously aware of what has happened. Instead we might feel vague uneasiness, tension or dissatisfaction without knowing why. On then other hand if we are consciously aware, we tell ourselves that we will return to our true agenda when we have finished everything else. This strategy rarely works because we never finish ‘everything else’.

Balance is critical here, just as it is critical in the natural world. Our physical body moves by dynamic balance: tension in some muscles alternating with relaxation in others. We need a certain balance of sugar in the blood to function but too much sugar will kill us. More broadly, balance is essential in how we spend our finite personal resources: our time and energy (and money) are not unlimited.

Commitment is what makes the difference between intention and action. It transforms the mental activity of creation into living reality. Yet committing to one thing inevitably excludes others, so it is wise to choose carefully. How often do you say ‘No’?

Here’s a practical strategy to apply these principles:

  1. Make a list of what is really important to you. This can be single words or phrases, general or specific. Spend as much time as you need to create a list that covers all that is important. Here are some other questions that may help you: What do you care about? When you have your list, keep it in a safe place. This is the essence of your true agenda.What do you really want?What makes life worth living?What makes you angry or frustrated?What is it you can’t live with?What principles are being violated?
  2. Against each item on the list put a value between 1 and 10 to indicate how much you currently honour it with your own resources. (time, energy, money)
  3. Review the list, particularly noting the items with the lower scores. Choose one item (or more if you like) where you want to increase your resources spent on it. What do you want to achieve by doing this?
  4. Make a commitment to balance this increase in resources (time, energy, money) by trimming a less important area (preferably one that is not on your list at all!). Give this commitment a time frame and a review date so you can check the balance again then.

You can return to your list anytime you like and repeat steps 3 and 4.

As you regain your true agenda, watch what happens to your inspiration levels.

About the author:

Trevor Hill publishes his Inspiration at Work newsletter for employed and self-employed professionals. If you want to boost your energy and motivation, and get more job satisfaction, then get your free tips now at: http://www.inspiration-at-work.co.uk





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